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Does my teacher like me or is he just flirting?

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Question - (21 January 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *winkle1million writes:

Ok well I see I really like this teacher of mine!.. But hears the problem he's 26 and I am only 14.I would just die for him to ask me to just at least stay after class with him!!! Well one day during a discussing I was looking around the room and my eyes kind of glanced over at his **** for like a sec and when I liked back up he was staring and smiling at me. Is that weird or what? He said goodbye to me when I left which he never does ever.!.. Then another day I was wearing pigtails and I walking into class and he said hello. I said hi back. Then he said hello poppy. Which was weird because that's not my name or anywhere close!..everybody laughed and he he laughed too. Then he looked at me and said that's what he calls his wife whenever she wears pigtails. Plus everyday during a class discussion he will look around at everybody for maybe a second then look at me for the longest time . Then look around again. He always does this. Plus he will stand right in front of my desk whenever he gets the chance. Where there is no choice for me to look straight at his ****. or look away where it looks like I'm trying to avoid the closure. I mean u do like him! But what's happening? Does he like me too or is he flirting??? And please dint tell me stuff like u can never be. Cause of the law.!

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A female reader, twinkle1million United States +, writes (21 August 2010):

twinkle1million is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Ok so one day I wrote this teacher a letter telling him to give a letter to my parents for me cus I was running away and I did runaway but once I got coaught I went back to school a week later and all my teachers knew about me running away and were all sympathetic but not really comforting then when I went to class mr * the teacher I've been talking about lately tells me to come outside and talk to him so I did he sounded so comforting and that's when I started to cry so then je took me and just hugged me with birth arms wrapped around me just letting me cry onto his chest once I stopped crying he let go and took my cellpjone out of my pocket and put his number in it saying if I ever needed to talk to just call him so I said thnks and then he explained to me he also ran away when he was my age but never came back and it was a mistake and told to never do that again so I said thnks and went back into class after school I had noticed what he did so I went to talk to him he said that giving me his number was not against the rules so just don't worry about it but I still do I no longer have him as a teacher but my sister douse so I will still see him when I pick her up from school

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010):

No teacher unconsciously presses his genitals against the desk of a pupil. He is testing the water, contrary to comments of others here. You are about to become a victim of pedophilia, and I really think you know it. As they say, the answer is found in the question. Take a step back and look at yourself, and compare his actions with your school principal or your home room teacher. Would they behave in this manner? If not, then you know what to do. WAKE UP AND TALK TO YOUR PARENTS. If you can't do that, you'll never forgive yourself when you get through with each other and in five years he does it again but the girl reports him. Everyone in your class will remember how you were flirting. You will not even know who else in your school is aware of what he is doing with you. YOU ARE BECOMING THE VICTIM. If you really think it's okay, why don't you discuss it with your home room teacher? I taught high school for eight years and a beautiful 15 year old came on to me, and I quickly did the right thing, making sure we never got intimate. But my colleague -- a religion teacher, by the way -- did have an affair with her, for two years, and then dumped her for another young girl. She was full of regret. But that guy is still teaching religion. REPORT THE FREAK.

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A female reader, twinkle1million United States +, writes (22 January 2010):

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I mention he called me pippy. Well now today at school he was asking each student a reveiw quiestion and gave everyone a nickname when he called on them. But when he called me he smiled creepy and said my name while raising his eyebrows. It was really creepy. Plus he would help me out on my question but not with anyone else. Is he flirting what's happening. I really want to know so I don't get the wrong idea. Plus when u told me it was nothing that I should look at my books instead of his****. well it when he's giving instructions and passing out papers. And he presses up against my desk with his **** practically on top of my desk. It's like he's doing it on purpose and wants to get my attention

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

it seems like he's just being friendly, and yes, may have picked up that you have a thing for him which he may find flattering, but he's married.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

You are reading far too much into NOTHING.

He is not flirting with you.

There is nothing going on here.

He doesn't fancy you.

You are his pupil. Nothing you descirbe here sound remotely like flirting. Why don't you look at your books if he stands in front you? He is standing in front of your desk, there is nothing special about that.

There's nothing going on here. Don't even contemplate that there is. Leave him be.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

He is probably very amused as you obviously stare at him too long and he knows that you have a crush on him. It'll be something to laugh about with other man teachers x

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