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writes:i know a girl that i close to and i like her she likes me back but i hade some problem for 3 weeks and i couldnt talk with her all that time, so when i met her in school she was sad i tried to talk to her she said doesnt want to talk to me or even say hi!, then i have sent her email explaining the problems i had over the 3 weeks so next day i asked her if she has read the email but she didnt answer yes nor no, i told her that i was sorry if i hurt her feelings and i didnt mean to, i said couple of hi when she stands with other friends and she says hi back and smiles to me, if she look me in the eye she smile even if im not similing and i dont know! but she isnt giving me eye contact, acting like she doesnt care about all but i know she does cuz when she said i dont care.I told her you dont care about what? and she just dont answer, all what i could understand from her that im acting werid with her and now she is ignoring me like i dont exist and im pissed off cuz i like her, really i just want her to be normal again and i dunno why im feeling this will be hard!why the fuck is she doing that !!!!??? and did i do really a bad thing that she reacts like that? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 January 2010):
You have to understand that women thrive and live on the world of talk. To not speak to her for three weeks is a big deal to her, no matter what your excuse. So stop being angry with her, that won't help. Write her a letter and give it to her. Tell her you are sorry you hurt her and that you would like to be friends again and understand why she is hurt. Then if she does respond, do nothing but listen to her, no matter what she says. Jut listen. Hopefully she'll open up a bit.
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