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writes:How can I get someone to fall in love with me, also what makes you fall in love with another person. If your answer is “be yourself” please don't waste yours and my time Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): You cannot MAKE someone fall in love with you. They either do, or they don't.
You can seduce someone true enough. But the thing about seduction, is it wears off when the adventure of it, for the other person, loses it's novelty.
Eventually the other person will cotton on to the fact that you are merely using them as a tool, a means to an end. And people don't like it when you do that.
After that happens, no amount of pyschological seduction is gonna make them love you again. Because they never did in the first place.
Seduction doesn't result in love. Love is naturally occuring, it cannot be duplicated or grown out of nothing. Seduction merely results in a false positive, or a form of benign obsession.
And the thing about obsession, is that it always ends up with negative consequences. Always.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 You cant make another person fall in love with you. However, if you know what sort of person they are attracted to you could try changing a little. Join the same groups, follow the same sports, see what sort of clothes he and his friends wear and emulate them, check out the girls his friends hang out with, are there any characteristics they all share?
However, if he doesnt love you as you are (I know I know) what makes you think he'll fall in love with a fake?
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