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writes:ok. so do i ignore this guy im tryin to get over or be the bigger person and say hi. two weeks ago me and him got into a big arguement over him callin me borin cause he tried to touch my leg and i pushed him extremely hard. in the past we have been attracted to each other on and off. but i feel so disrespected by the last altercation we had. this weekend a bunch of us(friends) ae goin away for a convention and im bound to run into him do i say hi or ignore him? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 January 2010):
When a guy does something like this, it usually means he likes you, but is hurt and so in trying to get rid of his pain, he ten insults you. You wouldn't let him touch your leg (which was the right thing do to by the way), so he felt the best way to feel less hurt was to say you were boring. This explains why things didn't work out between you. Basically he's still quite immature about women and what they want. I think if you run into him you can afford to say hi (you'll at least look polite about it all), but keep your contact limited.
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reader, sassygurl +, writes (21 January 2010):
I could understand how uncomfortable it will be for u guys 2 keep seeing each other without any resolution...ummmmmm. I would try 2 let him know that what happened happened no hard feelings when we see each other we can at least speak if it goes well then become cool again...It won't hurt 2 try.life is 2 short 2 hold grudges..Especially over nonsense.
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