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writes: I dated someone who is now on match.com and is bashing me to the women he is now communicating with. A friend on match.com found this out through her community of members and told me. I texted him and let him know i knew, which of course he denied. He was getting divorced (i admit my mistake to date him), and he was always depressed and negative. He is also lying to these women, as I found out he had lied to me on how long he was separated. What is the issue with this person?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (22 January 2010):
 Don't text him as he may see it as incitement and you could come to harm. Block him, delete him and forget he exists.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 Well his issue is what everyone else has said. As for what he is saying about you, ignore it. Women can see through the bs he is saying or they will when they find out how he is. And besides who cares what some woman you will never meet thinks anyway? He is bitter and sad and it is obvious, to everyone. Imagine yourself in that situation, you are trying to get to know a guy and he just keeps bashing a girl he used to date. I'm sure you would just find him immature and move on, not think badly of the woman he is talking about. Just ignore it all and cease contact with him. Definitely not worth it. Give it a couple weeks and he will be talking crap about another girl.
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reader, LibertarianLou +, writes (21 January 2010):
Why do you care?
But if he's definitely lying these women, report him to the website, and if he's violating your privacy in a way that makes you identifiable I think (I THINK) that is against the law?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (21 January 2010):
He's doing it because he's a loser. Don't take it too close to heart...and you can report any abuse to match.com if it gets too nasty.
Forget him, he's a deadbeat.
AE xx
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reader, captnjohn +, writes (21 January 2010):
 He's depressed and negitive and really screwed up, he just wants sex, loose him if you want more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): Well now yyou know why hes getting divorced. Hold your head up anybody wholl belive it is worse.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 January 2010):
He feels so bad and resentful about his divorce that he's taken it out on you and probably some other women. There isn't really anything you can do, other than hold your head up high. You know you're a great girl, and that's all that matters. He just has serious issues with women, and that's probably why his marriage didn't work anyway.
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