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Help, I'm in love with a married man (my son's father), what should I do??

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Question - (21 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ooky writes:

Hey Cupid my name is vanessa. im new to the site but i have an issue and i would love some advice. In 2005 i fell in love with a guy. In 2006 i got pregnant and i had his baby. He had another child and he said he had no dealings with his other baby's mother. They beginning of 2008 i found out that he got married. My heart dropped to the lowest level and it felt like my life ended at that moment. We were still having relations and we were pretending the marriage thing never happened. I would bring it up sometimes!! I love him soooooo much and he feel the same way about me too!! Everytime he's not with me i know he's with her! my heart crumbles every time. But i love that man til death. Sometimes i say i don't care because he loves me anyway and sometimes i get mad when i incision him holding her and kissing her and making love to her!

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A female reader, Ich_liebe_dich Philippines +, writes (21 January 2010):

Ich_liebe_dich agony auntWhy ignoring the inner thought going in our head. Did u ever think sometimes that maybe you deserve a better one than he is? think, think and think...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2010):

He doesn't love you. That's the problem. He's just using you for sex. He's a married man who's having his cake and eating it. And you're the one who will look bad when it goes wrong. If he truly loved you, he would have been there and he wouldn't have lied to you. You are making the mistake so many women make and believing the rubbish a man is telling you, rather than looking at his actions. His action say he is using you. You need to end it because if you don't, you will play second best in his life until he just ditches you. Then you'll have nothing.

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