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writes:my boyfriend cheated on me when i was 6 months pregnant. 9 months on we are still together but im still having my doubts. i keep getting the same dream of him and this girl every night before i go to sleep and its really starting to get me down and question my boyfriend which i dont want to do as i dont think he would ever do it again now that our little boy is here. any advice??
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 January 2010):
Rather than question him, try asking him for reassurance. You're hurt, of course you are. It's up to him to reassure you about how he feels for you. I think you should talk to him and tell him you're just terrified it will happen again, and you need him to be there for you and reassure you.
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reader, kitcub  +, writes (21 January 2010):
Honestly if he did it while you were pregnant with his child what makes you think he won't do it again? I have had the relationship where the guy cheats then says he wont do it again then of course he does it again and again. If a guy cheats once he will do it again. The thing is you are not going to listen to anyone say break up with him, it is too hard to imagine being alone especially with a baby. Do not stop questioning him. He did something horrible to you and has no right to want you to stop worrying about it. The thing is, and I am sorry to say this, he most likely will do it again and you will most likely find out. It just depends how much you can take before your heart hurts too much. You know in your heart you deserve a guy who is dedicated to only you and who you never have to worry about.
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