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writes:So me and my boyfriend has been together for a yr and 3 months, everything was perfect until recently about 2 or 3 months ago..around the time we had a miscarriage and i quit my job, we have been argueing alot about stupid things and havent been talking as much as we use to, alot of things have changed and its all the things that I loved about our relationship. I have not lost any feelings for him I love him more now than I ever have but I am stuck and idk what to do I feel like our relationship is becoming awkward and falling apart and it hurts me so much. I dont know if its because I am trying to hard to have it like it use to be or what? I just want to be happy and fun loving and worry less like we use to be what should I do??
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reader, braziliandude 5 +, writes (4 September 2010):
Hi :) ok, so what I would do were I in your position, is sit down with him and have a talk. You see your fighting over little dumb things because well, quite frankly, like you said, you barely talk to eachother anymore. He wants to try and be with you, but the fact you had a miscarriage might have depressed him and this is how he finds expressing himself to you easiest. Sit down with him, have a talk, and just vent to eachother. Relationships are about communication. Make sure you dont let the bridge of communication between you and him break.
Hope this helps,
Braziliandude 5
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