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writes: I've been with my bf for 2 years now. He is 9 years older then me. I in general tend to oscillate a lot. Well with our relationship is the same. One day I'm 100% sure I wanna be with him and the next I'm wondering rather or not I wanna be with him. We are planing to move in together in about 3 months time. Is it possible that this can chance, I mean people before they move in together they feel perfect and after that they start to feel this way (sometimes) but I feel this way from now? Can this get better? Is it possible? Anyone in the same situation as me? pls give me some advice Reply to this Question
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reader, CJH  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Moving in together is a monumental step - no matter how close you are at the moment, sleeping under the same roof and sharing lifes ups and downs together contantly is a whole new ball game.
Your moods could well be down to the fact that youre petrified of spending so much time with your boyfriend and on the face of it, delaying that move is something you should seriously consider.
Looking at it from a practical viewpiont, if you move in too soon and everything goes wrong, you wont be doing either of you any favours will you.
One thing you should think about is having this out with your boyfriend and discussing things until your both happy and clear about what a life together is going to mean.
Dont ignore the warning signs sweetheart. They may not mean that the relationship is doomed but they certainly mean that you have concerns that need dealing with before you share the same address!
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