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writes:I separated with my husband of 3 years while I was 5 mnths pregnant. We had problems before but it was just minor problems tht we managed to sort out. The reason we broke up was tht he suspected infidelity though he did not have concrete proof about it. We fought a lot and he ended up going back to hs ex who he dated for 6 years before we met and they have a child together. I still have a great relationship with his family and we are constantly in contact and they still hope tht maybe 1 day we would sort out our differences.I have moved on with my life but I decided to give myself time before I allowed anyone in my life. He is now staying with that lady and he seems happy. My problem is that he only saw his baby once though he does help financially and everytime I ask about the divorce that he filed he does not give me any answers. I still love my husband but will I be wrong to keep hoping that he will come back to me. Will he leave that lady for the second time or should I forget about him and take care of child on my own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u very much for the advise. I also feel sorry for the ather lady coz he will do it again even he try and proves it now tht he is there to stay. The thing is tht is bothering me now is tht he does not say a word about the divorce.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 You being pregnant made him feel guilty about not taking care of the other child. I don't care if he comes back. Set yourself free. Let him be the one travelling back and forth between houses. Men always make decisions based on impulse. They always think their women would forgive them. That's unfair to women. He hasn't prooved himself to be reliable when you need him the most. His ex won't feel secure either. If he got back with his ex it means that they still love each other and they regretted the breakup. He bailed out too easily so he has to possibly live with the guilt of breaking two women's hearts, breaking two children's hearts.
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reader, 21w  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 Lady...have some dignity for crying out loud!
He made up (I guess) that you cheated and left while you were 5 month pregnant with HIS baby?!!!
Honey...he doesn't want you. Sometimes people are confused with what they really want and they keep messing with other people's mind. Just let him go. Move on with your life and give your child as much as you can.
I hope you find your happiness soon! Good lucK!
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