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writes:soo i used to be bestfriends with my bf's friend but that frienship ended when that friend made fun of the fact that i was molested as a kid and told me to go kill myself when my dad died. he also made fun of the fact that i self mutilated my self. even after knowing this my bf never stood up for me and still chooses his friends over me. ive been with my bf for 3 yrs and this friend has also treated my bf like shit i know its bitchy to make yer bf choose one over the other, but i wasnt actually going to make my bf dump him as friend just wanted to see who he would choose. should i even stay in this relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (1 September 2010):
What your bf's friend said to you was beyond nasty. Makes me wonder what the hell he was thinking. Stuff like this has been said to me as well, but by bullies, not by people who are supposed to be your friend.
Does your bf know about this? If he doesn't, enlighten him. If he does, I would end the relationship. If I would put myself in his shoes and hear that my so called friend said these things, I wouldn't want to have anything to do with him anymore, until he crawls through gravel and apologizes genuinely. Even then, it's pretty unforgivable.
To me, it is not worth being in a relationship with someone who doesn't stand up for you when you're being hurt like this. You deserve better. Much better!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 September 2010):
No, you shouldn't. You shouldn't be near these guys with what you've been through. His friend is appalling, yes. But your boyfriend stood idly by and let him hurt you. What a shite boyfriend! Get rid of these crappy guys, and focus on your own life. You don't just want to end up with abuser after abuser. Your boyfriend is a weak minded loser who wouldn't stand up for you. That's not a boyfriend any woman should have in her life. Focus on your own life and make a concious decision to avoid worthless guys like this.
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