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writes:Trying to keep this short and to the point: my husband used to get so turned on just by looking at me. Then I got pregnant and he didn't want to have much sex (i can understand, there's a baby in there! lol) I just had my baby 3 months ago, and I can proudly say I am almost back to my high school weight (lost 40lbs, have 10 to go) and I have my cute figure back (plus extra curves my hubby loves) Ok so his best friend (who is also married) can't stop telling my husband (and now me) how hot he thinks I am. My husband is very turned on by the fact another man wants me. We were talking the other night, and now, he says the only thing that turns him on is the thought of watching me have sex with another man or another woman. And he doesn't understand it. So I'm wondering, why can't *I* still turn him on?? I've got this new great body that all his friends are commenting on yet an *idea* turns him on now??? I have gone to the extreme and acted out a LOT of his fantasies to spice it up. I know he is stressed at times, but when he's not, sometimes it's still hard to turn him on. He used to watch porn 5-10 times a DAY and never had a problem lasting a long time in bed. He gave up porn and now he lasts no time and says he doesn't feel like a man because he gets off so fast and I have to finish off with a toy or something. My goal is not to get off every time, but just to enjoy it, but he ALWAYS wants to get me off, which I can't complain there!! I can usually get off pretty quick, but he is off in about a minute, if even that (and i'm not kidding). We have sex pretty often. What can I do to help him last longer?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (31 August 2010):
 I'd venture he isn't masturbating as much as he once was. See if he can't "release " earlier in the day before you have sex.
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reader, woeizmex +, writes (31 August 2010):
Well this seems interesting because u are saying that before he used to last a lot, how long was that? Well why cant he do the same things now he used to do before? And how was watching porn helped him last longer? Now he is not watching it anymore? You just have to talk to him more i guess because u are saying he doesnt feel like a man anymore, well this could be the reason why he doesnt last longer than a minute he might be stressed out or feel inferior.
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