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I'm struggling to love him! Help!

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Question - (31 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

hi i cud do with some advice ive been with my partner 15 yr have 3 gorgous boys hes a lovely guy 13 yr age gap never bothered us the problem is i love him cos hes the dad to my boys and that will never change the thing is im not in love with him any more i have tried so hard to try and make it work but im strugglin if i talk to him he just gets loud and says i dont know wot im sayin heeelp please x

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A female reader, alexia846 United States +, writes (12 December 2010):

well it seems that he is not really listening to you, your feelings are your GPS. USE THEM.. never live an unhappy life.

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A female reader, Rosygirls92 Australia +, writes (31 October 2010):

I disagree wit girl above. U c if he hasn't dun anything wrong is faithful to u stay with him. When u were a baby crying to b fed n waking ur mum up at night. Were u v loveable? Yet ur mum still prob loved u. Also ur sons need a father.

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A female reader, XMissBeautifulLiarX United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2010):

Hi there, I think your only option is to take your childrena and GET OUT of the realtionship. You don't love him anymore. That isn't your fault. Just make sure it really is what you want if you do decide to take my advice. Let me know what happens xxx

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