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writes:i just got married on saturday and it seems like my husband would much rather spend time with his friends than to be with me and his daughter . we are young , i am 20 and he is 19 . we have been together since we were 13 and have a two year old daughter together. i want to know if there are any tips or suggestions to make our love life have that special spark back? and i really hope hes not cheating on me when hes with his friends. he never takes his cell phone , hes gone from the time he wakes up till 11 or 12 in the morning . please help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): I think you need to focus on your child and ask yourself is he making you happy? Think about what made you marry in the first place? Has your husband always been the way he is behaving now? If so then maybe it was a mistake marrying him. You have been together a long time so there is definately something special there so maybe you could talk to him and make him see how unhappy he is making you. You have two choices, either give it everything you have to make your marraige work then at least you can say you tried even if it means walking away eventually. On the other hand if you think that things won't change then it means being very strong and leaving, maybe some time apart would make him and you realise what you want and if that is different things or each other.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 Married on Saturday, problems by Wednesday... wow, that's the shortest honeymoon ever.
Doubt he could have changed so quickly, so you knew the way he was before you married him. If he has been cheating for the last couple of days, he was cheating before you married him.
How can you have been with him for 7 years and not know this guy. Why did you marry him if you were unhappy with the way he was behaving. People don't change because they sign some papers and get a wedding ring.
Gone from morning, dosen't come back untill evening.... dosen't give you much to work with, because he's not arround to talk to.
Personally, it's been so short a marriage, I'd give up. Man can't even give you a proper honeymoon. Signs the papers and then is off with his friends. Nope, there's not a lot of marriage there to save.
Only thing I can think, is that he's still out celebrating the wedding and he'll come home next week and settle down to married life.
Why did you not plan a honeymoon?
Sigh.. If it was me, I'd pack my bags and move right back home. I don't see the guy so he won't miss me, it won't make no difference to him at all. There's just not a lot to work with, if he spends all his time away and doesn't have a phone.
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