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male
age
36-40,
*akuri
writes:Hi, i met my gf when I was 19 n she was 16, for the first year I wasn't aloud in the upstairs part of her house let alone in her room and i wasn't aloud to stay past midnight.. When we had been going out for a year her mum let me go upstairs but i still had to leave by midnight.. My gfs little sister on the other hand is now 17 and has been going out with a 20 year old for less than a month but his already aloud upstairs and is aloud to stay over till anytime they want. Today my gf sat down and told her mum it's upsetting her that her mum has double standards but her mum doesn't see it.. I feel like I should say something but the problem is iv now moved into my gfs families home n don't really get to speak my mind about anything, my gfs mum told her that if were not happy with the way were treated to move out but me and my gf cant afford to and we cant move in to my parents house. I think is really unfair, she's avoiding having to do anything by threatening to kick us out.. The thing is it's breaking my gfs heart cos she feels like her mum likes her little sister more, I don't know what to do, if I say something to her mum we'll probably get kicked out, but if I don't my gf crys herself to sleep cos she feels unloved
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 get ur respect back by moving out ON YOUR OWN. and if u want a place to have sex,u can always find one. Your sister should deal with her mother after you have moved out.best of luck
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reader, RIKI93dw  +, writes (31 August 2010):
Ok here's what you do you two want to be together but can't afford a place of your own and cannot stay at your parents so what you do and this will sound very bold during this time your girlfriend needs you and to show her that she is not unloved you stay at hers maybe a night a whole day what ever she and you think best, another suggestion would be that if you and your girlfriend stay at a mates but I believe that you should stand up to her mother and say you and your girlfriend wish to be treated the same as her sister or atleast accepted as a couple by her mother If she still says no then her mother can just do one because you know what you want you're girlfriend knows what she wants and it's not what her mother wants so 2 against 1 your right she's wrong
I hope this helps
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