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writes: i am 26 years old and decided to take my parents somewhere..a nice city..somewhere not too far but we still have to take a plane.I think my problem is the fact i feel more angry being with them knowing i don't have a b/f or even dating anyone and i miss my ex dearly...for some reason i just seem more angry when i am around them--maybe because i know everyone else i know is with their significant others and doing great things, living with them etc..and i am on vacation with my parents..I would probably be happier knowing i had a boyfriend waiting for me at home. I want to take them somewhere but i can't help how i feel at times...i also think i won't be able to handle the 3 of us in one room spending 24/7 together..i like my space and privacy and i like being alone at times..and 3 people with one shower i see being really annoying..i am actualy debating spending a little extra money to get a room for myself..is this so horrible or more understandable? it is going to be pretty cramped with one room. I know we won't be spending most of the time there but it also means--24/7 for a week and i am not sure if i can handle it. My father understands. My mom is more clingy.Alot of people might say it is a waste of money if you can share..but i am really thinking of getting the extra room and maybe i will enjoy myself a little more b/c i will have my own room, shower, privacy to talk, etc?Is this a bad idea? Any suggestions?
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (1 September 2010):
Let me get this straight: you're taking out your misery on your parents? Why in the world did you plan for this trip in the first place if all you plan to do is to be moody and sulky? If you really feel you need to act like someone with permanent PMS, go ahead and book yourself a seperate room and feel sorry for yourself there.
Be happy you've got parents you can take somewhere. I'm 22 and I can't do what you can. I wish I could.
So come on. You're going on a vacation. There are tons of people in 'wealthy' countries who can't afford even a simple plane ticket. Make the best of it. Because the worst thing you can do is spend money and then not enjoy yourself.
It's up to you.
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reader, SeXySaYwAt  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 no its not a bad idea.. Get an extra room n have ur own privacy. Everybody like their own space. Im sure ur parents wud wana enjoy their own privacy to.. Dnt feel bad..
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reader, promiker +, writes (1 September 2010):
I know how you fill Im 25 in I go out with my mom and dad all the time in fill the same way. Just ask them in be like if it would be ok if I get my own room? And if you miss your ex just call him up in tell him you miss him in want thigs to be the same.
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