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male
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36-40,
*nadin
writes:my gf openly admits her ex is more fun than i am, she says thats why she remains friends with him, he likes to wind people up and she finds it funny some times.she also says that her silly side comes out when hes around...i think this translates to being flirty. she wont let me meet him because he would just beat me up. she tells me im too timid and dont loosen up. i dont feel great about it, but i guess she has to let go of herself sometimes and just act like a babboon. i hate when she meets up with her ex, and got coersed into letting her go by her famly. they told me i would be as bad as him if i tried to controll her. anyway anything i can do to make myself feel better when i feel second best to my gf, she tells me she is with me for a reason, why when i feel second best half the time, i dont know. i do not wish to leave her, i have invested too much emotion and effort into this relationship
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reader, Eskim0  +, writes (16 October 2010):
I agree with Johnnyrockets. The worse thing in the world is to feel like somebody's second choice. You deserve much better than that.
First try talking to her about how you feel, and if all else fails pack yo' bags and get out and find a girl who appreciates you.
Good luck.
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