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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Okay....I know I am being really really stupid and probably am acting silly, but I really do still love him.Here's my story, I have two kids , and once upon a time I married their dad, but, three years later, we divorced, and he moved to back to his European homeland for work, but he still keeps in contact with the kids and sees them once or twice a year. The thing is though, just before our divorce was finalised, he told me he loved me and was sorry for the things he'd done, but I, thinking it was a drunken joke, brushed it off. But now, three years later, I can't help feeling the same way about him, I think I am falling in love with him all over again, is it just because I have kids with him, or am I allowed to love him again? I've given the kids too much hope already of Mom and Dad getting back together, and each time it's never worked out. What do I do?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): Hes the father of your children, of course your always going to love him. If theres a chance you two might get back together i suggest not telling the kids until you're sure it will work out, your kids have already been through enough pain considering that they have thought their parents will be together again numerous times. The same thing happened to my parents and each time it didnt work out, and I was crushed.
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