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writes:simple questionokay so how do you know if your hymen is nonexistent?i mean i haven't had sex before but i've experimented with my vibrator and i can go up to 6in without any pain or anything.does this mean im not a virgin anymore?i don't ever remeber breaking it or anything sooanything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): Thanks u guys.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (15 May 2009):
 Sit around sewing for 16 years? BARF!!!!
You're a virgin until you've had sexual intercourse.
Satin is right, absence of a hymen does not necessarily mean that a woman is not a virgin.
Horseback riding can cause it to break or tear, it's true, but horseback riding isn't intercourse... unless you're Catherine the Great (ew! I'm not going into that story).
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 May 2009):
If you've shoved a fake penis in there then you are no longer a virgin in the technical sense.
Most girls aren't nowadays because we do things like ride bikes and climb trees and dance and play sports.
It's only girls back in the olden days who sat around sewing for 16 years and then got married who would have a hymen in tact.
Now you have to think of virginity as the first time you have sex with someone.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (14 May 2009):
 There is no real way of telling, often it can be broken as a child without you ever realising. For example, horse riding and gymnastics are two sports that will break your hymen.
By the sounds of it you definately have broken your hymen, using a vibrator will definately break it if it was still there in the first place. But it doesnt mean you are not a virgin, you can only lose your virginity through penetrative sex with a man.
I hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): well its most likely there, some people end up never breaking their hymen. i guess wait til you actually have sex. if you still think your having problems,go to your doctor and they can break it for you if you'd like.
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