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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey. I just learned that there is a difference between vaginal and clitoral contact (during sex). could you please enlighten me as to what this difference entails? Thanks!
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Oops! A senior moment, there, sorry! Harry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): very good details harry. i was being too polite to point out that the poster was a male. but hey we gals also learnt some things here. so thanks for the info.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): erm... harry, the person asking the question was male....
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (14 May 2009):
My apologies for repeating myself from a previous answer to a similar question, but I think you need to do this.....
Tonight, when you are alone and not likely to be disturbed, I want you to examine your pussy.
Closely.
Prop yourself up in bed, and part your legs but closes your heels together.
In other words, like frogs legs.
This opens up your pussy nicely, and your heels give you something to prop a mirror on - although you may need a cushion as well.
Get it so that you can get a clear view of your wide-open pussy, and start to expose your clit - Emivia told you where to find it.
Take a good look at things so that you can see every detail: how the hood covers it, what you need to expose it, how your lips fold and wrinkle - all that sort of thing.
I bet you haven't had a really good look before?
When you have inspected fully, just try playing with your bits and finding out how to give yourself most pleasure.
Pay particular attention to your clit: the tip is especially sensitive, but it often matters which side you rub, too (You don't HAVE to cum, but you just might!).
Now, open really wide and go in search of your g-spot.
[An area of controversy here. ALMOST all women achieve intense orgasms via g-spot stimulation, but there are some for whom it does very little. Hope that won't be you.]
Feel along the front wall of your vagina, inside you, for a roughened area of skin about 1-2 inches in.
Everywhere else will be smooth, and if you are at all aroused it should be a little plump, too.
The plumpness is due to the fact that is a spongy tissue similar to a penis, except that is does not engorge with blood but fills with a fluid upon arousal.
Stimulation of the area really fills the sponge with fluid and can result in ejaculation during orgasm, much to your delight!
It is NOT urine, although it does share the same exit duct. It is colourless, not yellow and has been shown not to contain any urine; so don’t worry, you won’t pee yourself!
This next step maybe a little difficult for you to implement yourself, but easy for the b/f (if you have one?) when he is with you. You should be able to manage it by yourself, but it's much more fun when you are "helped"!
Get him to put a finger or two on your g-spot and apply pressure. Then he can put his thumb on your clit and clamp them together, like pincers.
Retaining this grip, have him pump back and forth with his hand so as to give both clit and g-spot maximum stimulation, and keep going until you reach your goal.....
What you do now is up to you. But whatever you do, relax and have fun - and tell us how you get on.
Harry.
P.S. You are under-age, presumably, so unless you are treating sexual experimentation as a solo exercise, it is illegal. I doubt if you will listen to that bit - you are young, and it goes with the age!
Also, if you include anyone else in your activities - BE SAFE; USE CONDOMS ON EVERY CONCEIVABLE OCCASION.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): I'm not sure if you're aksing:
1. Where the different organs are?
2. What the different organs are?
3. How you stimulate them?
or
4. The difference in the feeling you get from the stimulation of the different places?
So.. I will answer them all.
The clitorus is a small bulb shape that is placed between the top intersection of girl's outer vaginal lips, it is protected by a "hood" of skin. It is not IN the vagina, so when you are having sex, depending on the possition, it is your pelvic region that will stimulate the clitous... Or you can stimulate it with your fingers.
It is a lot more sensative than the vagina itself and is often used to stimulate the girl during foreplay, or to reach orgasm during sex. A lot of girls find it very difficult to orgasm during peneration and a lot easier to orgasm with clitoral stimulation.
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