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writes:hi im 20 and i starting to talk to this guy who is a few years older that i knew about 5 years ago. we started talking online and decided to hang out well we did once it was such a blast he was a real gentalmen and very very upfront about his feelings and what hes looking for and just told me alot about himself as did i. we went back to his place messed around a lil and then i went home and that was 2 weeks ago weve been texting for about a month now he keeps saying o i wanna c u again but every time he just doesnt text me or call.well last time i talked to him we were suposed to go out and he still hasnt called im newly single and i dont kno if im wasting my time or if he really has an "impossible" schedule?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionya he didnt call all day yesterday then at 1030 at night he texted me n was like o sorry n made a lame story about workin on his car so he missed our date so i made other plans n didnt text him back think he got the hint thanks alot for the help
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice today was the day our date was set for and no call so im not gonna waste my time thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): You are newly single and when your used to being in a relationship, then it is very hard to adapt to that single lifestyle, because being in a relationship is a comfortable state to be in partly because you know where you stand. Single life is very awkward and it seems like you are always wondering is the other person interested. If you think this guy is keeping you on the line, then you need to decide if thats where you want to be or not. I have totally been in this situation. It isn't any fun to be there. I finally had to tell myself that I don't want to be that person, the person that constantly checks her phone "just in case I missed the call". I also don't believe there is such a thing as an impossible schedule, if he wanted to be there he would of been. It is still a situation that only you know best, and I hope I was some help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Make a last try, and if it does not work out, let him politely but firmly know he s not worth your attention, stop contacting him, move on.
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