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writes:How do I heal from a long term traumatic relationship? I just disovered he was always half a person, lieing to me, deceiving me, for 4 years; I left him once but he came back begging an I took him back; he has been sexually abused as a child but doesn't want to get help; recenty he turned his mum and dad against me, to my shock, while he was tellin me they turned against me but he is fighting for us; he dumped me many many times yet this last time he dumped me again for goin over his word and meeting his parents to fin out why was I so hated; ofciurse I was not, but this man is a pathological liar; I am scared and shocked, I feel I have survived being murdered, so big is the shock.. I don't want him back I only want to forget forget forget everything this nightmare but it's hard how can it be done? Anyone else in this situation? Being deceived forSo long is so scary and I am afraid I might be pregnant with him! Please give me some suggestions, I am glad to be out of the relationsship, but I am shaking with shock
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHonest_Answers, thank you again... I called them and the lady at the other end of the phone really calmed me down. She listened to my story all the details and she says it's normal to feel shock and I can call any time I want. I have never in my life experienced feeling like this, I am paralysed and afraid. I know that these feelings are ok now. Thank you again for your suggestion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI will call them once i stop crying. i have never been shaking so much in my life i am so scared;
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (14 May 2009):
 This is a harrowing story and I don't feel that anyone on this site has the professional qualifications to be able to help you. Please ring the Samaritans 08457 90 90 90. They have a caring and non-judgemental service and will be able to help you.
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