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writes:i met my friend at the carnival one day and well we went on rides and her mom talked to my dad saying i was coming over the next day.so the next day came and she brought her boyfriend.when i saw him i couldn't stop staring at him he was absolutely gorgeous.but what if he likes me to.he is my friends boyfriend and i don't want him to break her heart.please help.what do i need to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, misswalston +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Young lady, you just saw him and you are only reacting to his looks. That is your friend's boyfriend, so you need to fall back off of that and why would he break her heart? Are you leaving something out, because if that is the first time that you are seeing him, why would he be leaving her? I am not understanding your logic, but nevertheless that is taboo, so don't do anything to come between you and your girlfriend if she is really your girlfriend. There are many other boys out there. Find one!!!!!!!!!
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reader, bellaaddison +, writes (14 May 2009):
Nothing.
He's your best friend's boyfriend!
He hasn't given you any reason to think he has an interest in you and even if he had, so what? He's unavailable.
Find some other gorgeous guy to fantasize about.
Let your best friend enjoy her boyfriend. Be a friend and leave it alone.
Bella xoxo
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