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writes:okay so i have a question, and need to know if anyone else goes through this...is it normal for me to fantasize about pornography when im having sex with my girlfriend? can she sense it somehow?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Well, this might sound harsh but I am being honest. Would you like her to think about other men while she's having sex with you? She might not know that you are thinking about porn while you are having sex with her but at the end she'll probably feel that you are not really that into it. She'll probably feel ignored, hurt and the relationship could end. Trust me, I am goin through the problem of "porn" with my boyfriend and we are about to break up. Guys need to understand how women feels and pay attention to them. I am not saying to stop looking at porn completely but at least dont watch it that much and try and concentrate on your girlfriend when you guys are having sex cuz it should be special, otherwise you should'nt be in the relationship.If you dont consider your girlfriend enough to just think about her while you are having sex. Men should stop thinking about porn a little. Porn is not real life, a relationship is real life. Pople break up a lot because of porn, I been reading a lot about it. you should look for information about how porn affect relationships, you"ll be surprise. If you love this girl, doesnt she deserve the best of you? i think if you love her, you should try and make an effort to only think and concentrate about her at least during sex and limitate the porn.
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reader, nightie +, writes (14 May 2009):
 To a certian extent I think it is. If you need to fantasize about porn to make it enjoyable for you then that might be the problem. She might be able to tell. Just dont yell out your favorite pronstars name instead of hers and you should be good.
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