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*eke69
writes:Hi I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months, about a month into the relationship she got pregnant, no biggy we decided to keep it I'm excited about it she thinks thats wierd. thats not the problem though. the problem is she does'nt want to commit to a steady relationship. allthough it appears we are dating and everybody, her friends, my friends, her family, my family all think we are dating hell I think we are dating we act like it and it feels like it but she keeps insisting that we are just friends. everytime I try to talk to her about it she says she don't want to talk about it and if I puss it she gets mad. about 2 weeks ago we talked about love and we both admitted that we love each other, but she still insists that we are just friends. My other problem is that she is not considerate and I feel like she is a little disrespectful sometimes.like she says she will call me later and then never calls. or she says that she will come over or we have plans to go out then she never shows up I call her to find out why and she says something like she got company or she goes to her friends house or something like that, if I say something about it she get mad at me and says we're not dating I feel trapped, she calls me phsyco for getting irritated for her not calling me and letting me know she changed plans. everybody I talk to says that it is disrespectful for her to do that. I love her so much but just don't know what to do. any advice would be great
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reader, zeke69 +, writes (14 May 2009):
zeke69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice. More advice is always welcomed
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reader, zeke69 +, writes (14 May 2009):
zeke69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice. More advice is always welcomed
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reader, Vagn  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 i would say that you two need to sort out your problems and talk, if not for yourselves then do it for your baby...
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