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writes:my two best friends at school are ignoring me. Because recently i've been going though some really hard stuff with my mum and everything and they are just a bit fed up with it.should i just face the fact that they don't wanna hang out with me or should i do something about it.. if i should then what ??btw im not 18 in 15 but the stupid computer clicked on 18.thanks x
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Try to find out why they are ignoring you, if they were true friends then they would be supporting you through whatever you are going through! Try talking to them if you are lonely but if you are ok plodding along or if you have other friends then I wouldn't bother with the two which are ignoring you! They obviously aren't very good friends! X
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Your friends are a bit fed up with the fact you're going through a hard time? It doesn't sound like they should be fed up, they should be supporting you when you are fed up!
These girls sound a bit immature and not like good friends, but if you enjoy spending time with them then you could make an effort, but maybe it would be best for you to make some new friends.
Also, do you have a school counsellor? I recommend you talk to them if you find yourself going through problems, this might mean you put less pressure on your friends by talking about difficult issues with them, they might find it awkward to discuss your problems if they don't know how to help?
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reader, Lauren.. +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Heya
if they are your friends then you should be able to talk to them about this stuff. See what is actually bothering them ask them if its the way you have been acting because you never know, it could be something else.
My advice is just to talk to them, and see what they say. Its worth a try if you really want to find out. However, if the reason they are being distant with you is because you are going through a hard time, then they dont sound very loyal to me. Friends stand by each other through the ups and downs. Don't they?
Good Luck!
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