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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey.Since I moved to Upper School, things have changed alot. I've stayed roughly with the same friendship group but I mean things were bound to change and they have. The thing is, people are saying I've changed, alot. Over the past few months I've lost 3 friends - all for different reasons. And I'm always having arguments with my friends too. I'm worried that I will lose more. Is it just that I have grown up? A ex - friend said I have become more spiteful. If this is what growing up makes me, do I have to be this way? What can I do to stop myself changing into a bad person? x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Youths change constantly to varying levels as they are allowed to experience more. It is no wonder that you are probably not the only one changing. It 'should' not be so surprising if your friends had changed along with you. Growing up, as I was just telling a friend earlier today, means to shed excess, filter out the unnecessary, build on your strengths. A child can grow up and still be playful, silly and experimental, no matter if s/he is 10, 30 or 100 years of age.
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