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writes:my husband wants me to swallow but the taste is horrible...ive tried to get him to eat fruit but he doesnt like any kind of fruit...well here's the thing when he goes down on me he only licks my clit and never puts his tounge in me...if hes not tasting my cum i shouldnt have to taste his...right? please someone any advise on how i can get to him to put his tounge in me?...been married almost 6 months now and he wont do it no matter how i ask him...
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 He can't make you do anything you don't want to do. Tell him straight that you don't like it and won't do it and thats the end of it.
But you can't also expect him to do things for you if you won't do it for him.
Livia
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reader, KaylaLeeann  +, writes (14 May 2009):
like they say.....you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink it...it's just the way he feels...no one wants to really do that....it's sick...so my adivice is....let it go.....well message me....because i got to go .... add me too :)...good luckk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Yep, selfish man if he wants you to swallow but won't return the favour. i don't knowe what is your tradeoff here.
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reader, All4MyLove  +, writes (14 May 2009):
There are times I do it and I am so into it that I want that cum and am in full anticipation of it.
Then there are times I just want to finish it and don't want to taste it , so when it is near the end I put it between my teeth and cheek so that it does not go on my tongue , only for a quick second before swallowing.
My man could be different but I can usually tell when he is going to cum because his penis gets harder , somehow feels smoother and starts throbbing near the base which I can feel with my hand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Like Steve says, you can't make him do it if he doesn't want to. It's supposed to be pleasurable for both partners or it's not worth doing - right?
Maybe he finds it just as distasteful as you do, in which case he can't really complain if you choose not to swallow. Maybe it's not so much the taste as far as he's concerned but more the 'texture'. Strawberry blancmange is very tasty but my other half gags at the mere thought of eating it.
I assume your hygiene down there is ok, so maybe he's just got a mental block about it. Too many pubes in between his teeth maybe? Try trimming them a bit and see if that makes any difference, but at the end of the day you could ask him why he won't do it for you if you're expected to do it for him. It's all a bit one-sided, but there may be a good reason for it. You just have to find out what, and resolve the issue in an amicable fashion if possible.
In the meantime, just lick the tip.
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reader, misswalston +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Good afternoon. Just yesterday I gave a young lady info on swallowing, but your situation is a little different. Ok, first we work on the swallowing: Use fruity substances on his penis. Go to the sex shops and get oils, creams, gels, or anything that you can put on his penis and that taste good to you, so when you swallow, it won't taste so bad. You can even use stuff in your refrigerator like whip cream, jelly, just anything to get that nasty taste out of your mouth.... Now, as far as him not tasting your cum, maybe he feels the same way as you do as far as taste. You both need to discuss this and see what you can do to make it taste better so you can get the full pleasure out of oral sex. Believe me, you are both missing out on some serious feelings, because when you swallow a man's cum, OH MY GOD!!!!! Girl, you will see a whole different man, and if he puts his tongue inside you while you are coming, he will see a different you too!!!!!!Good luck and let me know what happens.......
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