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writes:I have only slept with one guy (many times) who used me for sex and I think thats why I view sex the way I do now. I have plenty of opportunities but I know I will end up getting attached and I also don't want guys calling me a hoe or liking me any less. I really want to have sex but I'm so afraid of getting hurt again. I just broke up with someone because he wanted sex and no relationship but I have been so horny lately that I'm contemplating going back to him. I keep thinking about it and I masturbate like twice a day. Should I just have sex with him?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 May 2009):
 You will feel a lot better about yourself if you hold out for someone who deserves you!! Besides, they say that the best sex is with someone who cares about you and who you care about.
Keep masturbating (it'll keep the edge off), and keep holding out for someone worth your time. Remember, you'll only be having sex with the guy for like, a tiny portion of your relationship. So make sure the rest of the time you're together is time that you love and enjoy, not craziness and drama. You'll just get stressed out, and is all of that really worth a little bit of sex?
You did the right thing breaking up with that guy. Stay that way! And don't just settle for any ol' fella, you make sure he's worth it because then the sex will be phenomenal and you will NOT be sorry!!
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, RoCo Da Pixie  +, writes (14 May 2009):
Its natural to feel horny, Only cos your masturbate twice a day means you have a very high sex drive, You dont want to commit to a purely sexual relationship, You want to find a guy who wants to get to know you before you commit any sexual relationship, As you dont want to lower your self respect to give in to any urges you may have
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