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writes:Alright,my g-friend is cheating on me.i do not see her often so i dont know how to break up with her.(i think she knows karate so i cant break it to her to hard)How do i get out of this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): dont worry about her doing karate, i do taekwondo and you cnt relli use martial arts tht well against someone on the spot. unless they attack first (instinct). ani way try to put her down gently and see if tht works. if not run!!
wish u luck
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reader, Honest_Answers  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 She's cheating on you yeah? Do you know this for definite? Does this bother you enough to break up with her or are you just not doing it because you're scared of what she'll do? Some people do work through rough times such as people cheating but I honestly wouldn't be scared to break up with her if you know she's cheating.
If you're not in love anymore you need to break up with her, but I don't know the girl personally so I can't easily tell you how to do it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): So what she knows karate. Unless she's a black belt or something then she's probably just a beginner. You have nothing to fear from a yellow belt in karate, trust. Getting yellow belt in karate is amongst one of the easiest things to do in the world, because of all the crappy mcdojo's out there that don't have stringent requirements for their students. The only thing easier is getting a white belt in karate. Oh, and even if she is a black belt.. standards are just not that high anymore at most of these schools.
erm... Just tell her you think you are gay.. that one works great if you don't want to hurt a chick's feelings. lol No seriously, just tell her you don't respect her cheating on you and you are kick kick kicking her to the curb, but in more diplomatic language I suppose, if you do indeed fear her.
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (14 May 2009):
If shes the one cheating then why would she hurt you? in any way?! your the guy here so act like one! Be honest with her, nobody is going to stick around knowing there being cheated on, whether she knows karate or not have some balls and tell her its the end.
Sorry this seemed slightly up front but its obvious, tell her straight and then leave, she made the kistake she can pay the price (this can happen with no physical violence!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): ..... Are you saying you're afraid to break up with her because you think she'll beat you up???
This is weird.. somethign i see in movied but not in real life.
This is silly.. but if you're seriously scared of her, then break up with her over the phone. Just do it..
Babe.. you've been cheating on me.. so obviously.. we have to break up.
Buck up!!
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