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We messed around and he has a g/f..now what?

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Question - (14 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey!

ok heres the thing...i like this guy and im 16 and the guy i like is a senior and he has a gf, but the thing is we hung out one night and we went to his place and this was at like 11pm and we just talked and watched tv but then he put his arm around me and we cuddled, then he looked at me and asked, can you keep a secret and i said yea of course i can, well he asked me if i wanted to do stuff with him and i said yes, so he fingerd me for a bit then i got on top of him and gave him a blow job, and ever since that night i started to like him more, and for awahile he stopped texting me and then it seemed like i was getting signs about him cuz everyday i either heard his name or saw his picture or he got online right after me, and so i few questions i have would be

1. what should i do about him?

2. if he wants to hang out again should i?

3. what would the signs mean?

4. hes really hot and i had a great time but should i be feeling guilty?

thanks please help :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

Heya

dont bother with this guy. He just wants to use you for sex, and then ignore you when he is with his girlfriend, and then call you when he wants more sex. I think you should have more dignity and be able to say no, because after all, he does have a girlfriend, and yes you should feel guilty because of this. Think how awful you would feel if you were the girlfriend and you found all this out?

If i am honest, I dont think there were any signs, its just coincidence that these things keep happening. It would be wrong for you to be together anyways, because he has a girlfriend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009):

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i just got done talking to him over texting...we started to talk about sex and he wants to hang out again soon and have sex, i really want to but im so confused!...

help please give advice.

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