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writes:i need help.i know im kid but i know what im talking about.i need a boyfriend.my boyfriend that i absolutely loved dumped me when i moved cn anyone help.can you tell me if i need to go to the skating rink and meet one there please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): Learn to be happy in your life, and THEN share your life with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Dont be going after boys,u want boys after u.date someone
at ur school,like a cute boy that likes u.if not date someone u know not someone u met at the skate-rink.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): My goodness..but you are sounding quite desperate, here. If you 'need' a relationship then you probably shouldn't have one, right now. If you 'need' a bf so soon after getting dumped, it's likely you want this for 1 of 2 reasons. 1) You could need a new relationship to validate your self-worth. And to ease your loneliness and pain. Wrong reason to date again. You want to go into ALL new relationships being independent, healed, recovered and experiencing a good, quality life, by getting there all on your own. When you show this happier side to the world...this is what prospective young men, will take note of about you. So calm down, build your confidence levels up and drop the baggage by healing. Start by building a busy life for yourself....hang out with your greatest friends and just have fun! Remember, a new relationships is not the answer. Gotta heal and recover from being dumped, girl...before you date anyone else. or2) you may want a new boyfriend to make the old ex bf ...jealous and wanting you back. If so, the guy dumped you! Time to be strong, get your pride back and move on, girl. Don't play with new guy's emotional well-being, his life and his happiness..just so you can hope to attract the ex bf back. That is just plain cruel and immature. Hope this isn't the reason, hun.However, it would be nice if you did write us Aunties back, and give us more insights. Studentoflife asked you a good question..."Why do you want a boyfriend?" Let us know why and maybe we can further advise you. Thanks, Hun!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 May 2009):
Why do you need a boyfriend?
Why can't you be single and have great fun with your girlfriends?
You have discovered how much boys can hurt you so why dash out and find another one? Get strong as a single girl.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Yes, the skating rink is a very good idea - but only if you can remain upright. You don't want to make a fool of yourself by falling down all the time and bruising your backside. On the other hand, you could attract the attention of some suitable candidate who happened to be gliding past and ask him to kiss it better for you.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Why do you need a boyfriend?
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reader, summerslady21 +, writes (14 May 2009):
Why do you NEED a boyfriend? Honey you are young and the way I see it a female is to be chased not be the chaser! But yes going to a local mall movie theater skating rinks anywhere a lot of people hang out. Get some friends together and go out just be careful doing this you could run into a lot of odd balls that may take you the wrong way! Honey please be careful but have fun!
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