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writes:Plz help.Ok this is my first time doing this,I really need some advice.So my bf of a lil over a year wants oral sex..I really don't like doing it,so I just tell him no bt we do have sex.Ok so a while back he had asked me to do it prior to us having any type of sexual contact I told him I'm not doing it but he has permission to get it from someone else.soo last night I had asked him is he talking someone,he told me yea but the girl only gives him head nothing else and I probably seen her before when we were together a couple of times. I guess what I really want to know is,am I being nieve to think that's all their doing would you let your bf do this?Should I kick thiz tramp out the pic and please him myselfAll together.what's another solution? I appreciate your honest opinionAnd help,thanks!
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reader, summerslady21  +, writes (14 May 2009):
Honestly its not good for any relationship to allow another woman to please your man in any way! If I were in your position I would at least try to do it yourself! You can just try other things! I really don't like doing it either buy for the sake of my relationship and making him happy I do and just the thought that I am the only one pleasing him makes it easier for me! And knowing that he enjoys me alone makes it that much better. If you do this for him and you still don't feel comfortable doing it then maybe you can talk and come up with an agreement to do things differently! But no having another female in the mix is not healthy yes I would push her out the picture! Work tignha out among yourselves. Good luck sweetheart
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): i find i very hard to believe that all they are doing in oral. infact if that were the case i would eat my hat.
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reader, All4MyLove  +, writes (14 May 2009):
I would also be sceptical. I can't see a woman aggreeing to only do oral on him with nothing in return..unless he is paying her..
You should talk to him and let him know how you feel. If he is willing to stop seeing her if you start giving him oral then I say do it.
It really isn't so bad , and can be lots of fun if you let it be.Especially if he does it to you at the same time.
If part of the problem is that you are finding your jaw hurts , try a different position. I had this at first but found if I kneel between his legs or on all 4's (69) it does not hurt at all and is a big turn on.
Another problem I can see coming up though , is now that he has been allowed two women he may not want to stop. If you give him the ultimatum of choosing just one you need to be prepared that he may not choose you.
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reader, Ms.Helper  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 I think that's the worst idea you could have come up with to be honest!
If he loved you that much you seriously think a quick blowjob would mean so much to him? So much to him that he had to go else where to get one?!
I think you are being naive. I don't class what you have as a relationship either, it's basically like friends with benefits!
I'd either pluck up the courage and give him a blowjob or say no altogther, don't let him basically cheat on you by going elsewhere!
Surely you value yourself more than that?
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