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I want to break it up before I continue to cheat but I don't know how...

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Question - (14 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *izzie(: writes:

I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a year and a half on and off and I think im in love. The problem is that this time around that we have been going out he has been acting different from all the other times we've been together. He's more jealous and he has a tendercy to need to know ever single thing I do and where im at. It been really hard to keep faithful to him as well. I've already cheated on him five times and he knows about four times that i've cheated. I recently tryed to break up with him because I thought it was wrong what I was doing to him and it just ended u being a cry-fest but we stayed together. Now I cheated on him again but I refuze to tell him about this time. I feel like i love him but what if im just trying to convince myself that I do but i really don't. I want to break it up before I continue to cheat but I don't know how to without him ending up mad at me. How do I do it?

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A female reader, lizzie(: United States +, writes (15 May 2009):

lizzie(: is verified as being by the original poster of the question

lizzie(: agony auntthank you guys so much! && i know that the fact that i've cheat is very wrong but i fell into temptation so much. that's why i need to break it off.

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A female reader, elephant159 United States +, writes (14 May 2009):

elephant159 agony auntTrying to break up a realationship that you have had for that long is hard. I'm very sure the reason he is checking up on you a lot more is becasue of the times he knows you cheated on him. He probably doesn't trust you as much as he used to. No matter how you try to break up with him he will probably be upset about it. I'm sure after a couple months he will get over it and you two will be ok in the friend way. Just tell him that this isn't working out for you. It will probably be better for you to break it off with him then stay with him and keep hurting him more and more.

Hope evertying workds out.

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