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writes:me and my long distance gf broke up just over 2 weeks ago becasue sher couldnt handle with the distance, in sempemter am going to university and she going to college but the thing that we will only be 20 mins way from each other could things finally come togeather ?
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reader, ARCWOLF +, writes (15 May 2009):
ARCWOLF is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for help people but we finally sorted things out she couldnt let me go too many memories, and time togeather and that we are back togeather now
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): There's lots of people at her college more interesting than you. In your hometown when there was no one else, you were okay, now she's got other options and you aren't the one she wants. 20 minutes is nothing. Mine and I were 6 hours apart- no problem! She's trying to let you down easy. The sooner you move on the better
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reader, ARCWOLF +, writes (15 May 2009):
ARCWOLF is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe really seems that we can work this whole thing out, also whats to meet up next month
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Thing is, women are capable of establishing "distance" no matter how close they might be to you in proximity. You could be standing there talking to her, and still feel an annoying sense of distance, as if you were 2000 miles away or something. That's just the truth.At the same time, women are more than capable of establishing a sense of closeness from any physical distance, if they so desire.I think she used you living far apart as an excuse! When you move near her, don't bother pursuing her, she lied to you about why you broke up.
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reader, caddy123 +, writes (14 May 2009):
hey, im going to be brutally honest with ya i was with a guy that lived 2hrs away, really nice guy went to see him but the real problem was i didnt actually like him in a bf/gf way and i blamed it on us being far apart, 20mins is nothing if you really like some1 u wouldnt think so, so maybe she feels like that? or she just playing the field keeping her options open. sit down and talk to her its the only way u r going to know good luck x
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reader, philipgifts  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 If both of you would meet at a place in the middle of both locations then it would be ten minutes away, you both would be traveling. She may just want to be free to be able to see other people. Her friends also may have played a part in this decision. It really isn't that far, maybe there were other intentions at work.
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