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writes: Im starting to resent my ex for letting me go. He was married when I met him and was suppose to be getting a divorce. I didn't feel right seeing him why he was married so I told him lets slow things down until he takes care of the situation. I thought he would move alittle faster since he wasn't spending time with me, but he didn't.After waiting a few years I dated someone else. after 3months my ex wanted to know if i still wanted him. I didn't give him an answer plus his situation was still the same. I broke things off with the other guy because he was just no good. I still love my ex,but he has lost all love for me. He said he was committed to me and I mess things up and he was not accepting that. I don't understand him because before I met him he had an affair with a married woman whom he said he didn't love. He said he didn't want a future with her and told her not to leave her husband for him. Okay here's the funny part. He said inmate things should be between two people who are committed to each other, so there fore he couldn't take me back, but yet he wasn't committed to this other lady and expected her husband to take her back. Who in the world do he think he is after all them years I waited for him. Then he had the nerve to tell me we could be friends,but whenever I called his phone he would never answer.The only way I could reach him is if I called him on his job. He could reach me on my cell, home and work phone. Seems like he gets a friend out the deal but I don't. He makes me sick acting like he is the only person that matter and like he never done anything wrong. Who in the world do he expects to just sit back for years while he takes his time to get his act together. I admit that he did treat me nice and I believe he I didn't cheat on me, but I don't know for sure, because he was married. I wish I had never met him. I tell you I learned my lesson. If a brother is married he need not look in my direction. I never cheat on my boyfriends, but he wasn't free to be with me and then he act like he can't understand me dating someone after waiting for years. I bet if I was married and living with my husband after just a short time he would date someone else. Now, this bastard act like I don't even exsits.
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reader, BLACKHORSE  +, writes (16 May 2009):
OMG he is a user!!!!!!!! Good for you for getting out it must have been so hard, in these situations you spend so much time trying to figure out these selfish idiots, no one can, we all get caught up with a selfish twat at one point in our lives, I know I have just done it.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 Thank you lucky star that he is "done" with you. Now you have ALL the time in the world to focus on YOU.
Take some time and exam your life and your choices in men. Really. One is married and one was ( to quote you) no good.
Don't get involved with a man who isn't all the way out of his "old" relationship before he starts a new. If you do you will end up with the broken heart.
Looking back, do you really think he was getting a divorce?
You deserve a good man. Not someone else's leftover.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): well, you want a married man and well you just have to put up with his shit. no one forced you to sleep with a MM. you made all your choices. and you chose to be a mistress. so just sit back and enjoy the life of a mistress. you have earned it.
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