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writes:I'm 18 and at a hard time in life. Iv been dating this guy for 9months. He's 21 and lives with me, my mom, my little sister and my moms boyfriend. When the relationship started I fell in love with him so fast! He was my world but over time I don't love him as much. I fell like I want out of the relationship but I'm afraid that if I fo I'm not going to find another person to be with. I don't know what to do. I'm not happy with him ever, I hate kissing him and just wanna be alone. I don't know how to tell him this because he says he loves me. The biggest problem is that his family hates me. He talked to this girl befor dating me and his family is trying to get him with her. I think he's seeing or talking to her behind my back. I really don't know what to do or think! I really need help! I wanna be happy again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): You don't really want him you just are afraid of being alone. In the long run though you will make both of you unhappy if you carry on. His family don't like you and you think he likes someone else, so make the break. It won't be easy at first but it would be better to be with someone you liked better, in the long run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): You say you are worried that if you break up with this guy, you won't ever find anyone else. But if you stay with him, then it definitely won't happen, and you will never know. Also, if you are feeling so bad about being in the relationship, then it is kinder to him that you are honest with him, and let him go so he can move on. I wouldn't stay with him out of fear of being alone though, because your feelings could get worse over time, and turn into bitterness and resentment. Break-ups are never easy, but sometimes they have to be done. Good luck. x
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