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female
age
30-35,
*elples
writes:I have gone away to college, five hours away from my home. I miss my boyfriend so much. At least, I think that's what it is. I become so sad and await anxiously for a phone call or a text from him all the time. Today, we were talking but his phone died. He couldn't charge it since he was sleeping over his friends house out of no where. (His friend and him went to another friends house to play video games (such kids =]) only to leave extremely late, too late for his friend to drive him back home so they just went to his house explaining why he didn't have his charger). That earlier on the day that his phone died. Its almost midnight so I'm guessing he is sleeping over again? Even so, I'm missing him tons and I don't really like this aching in my heart. Is there any way I can become less attached or something? Keeping myself busy only works for so long... Eventually, that one "boring" moment, I miss him again or have little things that trigger my heart into thinking of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): Ah yes those boys and their silly video games! To be honest their isn't much that you can do to relieve the heartache but it's important to remember somethings and agree to somethings to not let it control you.
When my relationship became long distance we agreed to maintain a "healthy" relationship. No late night stuff to the point where one is too sleepy for the next day. We always trusted each other and always did our best to have faith. If you are in college, you should not disappoint yourself by being too wrapped on a guy you KNOW loves you because you can't concentrate.
And yes, saying you miss each other is ok to say from time to time but don't let it be the main topic source! Try to be happy knowing that you both love each other in your head, rather than you miss him. Think positive about him. If you are happy, he wil be too. If he is happy, you will be too.
You could always do like him and play videogames too ^^
Well good luck, I am sure some other aunts will help with ideas. Long distance isn't easy, but it is doable.
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