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writes:I am gay and have just left college and have never had the courage to talk to a boy who I have seen for the 2 years I've been there! We have made brief eye contact a couple of times but I don't think it has meant anything, and now every time it happens it's only brief. I think it's because I look angry, (which sounds wierd but it's true) when I am anxious around people. I was wondering whether it is possible to tell whether someone is gay by their body language or eye contact etc. Also is their a way of making suggestive eye contact with another possibly gay man.I may only see him once more, next month, and I never see him anywhere else. I can't get him out of my head. How can i be around him without feeling anxious and worried? Is there anything I can do? Is there anyway I can know? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): Seeing that you may see him for the last time, just for him and ask him out. But be confident and charming , you have to bring out all the tricks.If you're nervous and boring he may not be interested whether or not he;s gay.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 HMM i had a guy flirt with me alot whenever i would go to the gym well i knew he was gay immeditly from the first time he talked to me he would even ask me if i wanted to hang out at the club etc give me pointers on my work outs he was stronger and bigger then me so i didnt want to insult him and seemed like a decent enough guy but im straight so one day i just had a female friend come in the gym and i kissed her in front of him then introduced her to him so he got the picture he never bothered me again like asked me to the club but was still a nice guy. my point is basically i was creeped out buy his advances and flirting i have had other males be alot more agressive and ask me out straight its not as creepy and it clears the air alot easier i just tell them im straight they usually say thats to bad i dont kno why guys hit on me im trying to figure that out i couldnt be any straighter but any way my advice just ask him straight out dont beat around the bush no pun intended at the least introduce your self and ask him if he would like to hang out sometime and tell him how you kno him etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): The only way to know is if you actually find him in a gay porno shop! Or you ask him...
Just find yourself standing next to him and say oh ive seen you a few times around here before do you come here often? and there you have started a conversation.this should hopefully continue and there you have made a friend with him.he may be embarassed about being gay and is not open about it however so unless he actually mentions another gay or his sexuality in conversation i would be hard pressed to ask him out straight.he may get insulted if you suddenly ask are you gay? Wait a while if you do become friends and see what happens and then ask him.
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