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My best friend has a drinking friend, and is leaving me out!

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Question - (13 July 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A age 51-59, anonymous writes:

is it true that old saying that "misery loves company"

are drinking buddies really "bonded" in real f.ship?

my best friend drinks a fair bit to cope with her medical and personal issues, she knows she does this. She has in the past 9 wks, become good friends with (friendship only) another woman, married with a kid, who has potentially serious medical issues.

she also drinks a lot, they drink together on wkends.

Now this woman and her see and call each other a lot. I visited my friend on fri night and her other friend called her on the phone - they spoke for over an hour! I was sitting there half listening as my friend didnt want me to go, she ended the conversation to this other friend with "u are the best friend ive ever had" both of them had been drinking,(i hadnt,) then she wanted to go bed as she was tired, i went home, i wonder if she even remembered what she said?

i felt like crying... Ive been there so much for her this past year and now feel shes forgetting what ive done for her, for this new more outgoing "drinking buddy" friend? yes we all need other freinds, but she was so insensitive?

do I tell her that she hurt my feelings? i felt so hurt..

thanks - need opinions.

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