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writes:alright here it goes. i was talking to this girl iv begun to develop feelings for over the last few months. one night she and i were hangin out and she and i ended up in the bedroom were we did a little fooling around. now she keeps blowing me off. i havnt been overbaring i guess u could call it that.. what i mean is i havnt called every day to hang out... maybe once a week if even to c if shed like to come back over and hang out with me or get other people over for a movie or something of that nature. but every time she says yes shell come she dosnt any more. so i stoped calling and texting completly. yesterday she called me and asked me if id go to the town fair with her i said sure give me a call wen she was close to my apt, as it was on the way to the fair. and she never came nor did she call... i really like this girl im just wondering if im wasting my time... and i know she was not busy because later in the evening i texted her to find out how the fair was and she replied that it was boring... so i know she blew me off... what should i do just let it go? or give her more space and see what will happen? help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): With her track record of not turning up, I think if I were you, the next time she suggests a meeting agree to it and don't turn up. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
She's totally unreliable and stringing you along. Forget her - there are lots more women out there worthy of your attention, but this one isn't it.
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reader, carnes +, writes (13 July 2009):
hey it could be one of two things ether she is questioning the relationship maybe she wants to try and date other people or maybe after the foolin around she could be alil nervous cuz maybe she likes you as much as you like her. . im 15 and the same thing happened to me when i fooled around wit him and i liked him so much that it scarred me. . But whatever reason it is jus make sure she knows how much you like her. . Hope i helped message me how it turned out
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): this is the same guy who posted this question. i just thought of this and would like to know if it is worth confronting her over. i was thinking about calling her to ask her why she keeps blowing me off but i wasnt sure because i dont want her to kno that i like her that much if she doesnt feel the same...
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