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writes:I have a deep problem right now, so I have a long distance friend who is or was at least some kinda of crush, since we keep in touch very often and we are or at least were very fond to each other.Well, he knew I was having this trouble and I didn't wanted to email since I´m feeling very down. He wrote to me on Wednesday to check on me. I describe what was going on and how bad I feel, and then told I really wished he was OK and that I hope everything is going well for him there.He didn't answered. I don´t know what to think, he writing just for politeness or is he having troubles himself maybe and don´t want to tell me, but why he does that anyway. Please advice how should I feel? I mean is it normal to people ask how you are and not saying anything back, or is it just me being too sensible right now? Why asking if you´re not saying anything back?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 perhaps he does have something troubling him.
but not everyone checks there emails everyday so give him sometime to reply give him a chance to read your email and respond to it.
he may be very busy at the moment or stressed with something that he's not had a chance to get to his pc and reply to you.
just chill out and give him some time :)
he'll reply in time.
hope this helps.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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