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writes:Im ready to have sex with my boyfriend. I know am 'underage' but I have spoken to my bf about it and we are both ready for this kind of commitment. I didnt come on here to be told am to young and i shouldnt be doing it because I KNOW this okay.Anyway, we been together nearlly 3 years now, we have done everything except, of course, sex. He is coming to my house on Monday and my mum is at work. She said we can aslong as we use a condom. Im nervous but hey you are aint you?I don't know how to 'make a move' like should I go to him first? or should he?. Shall we start by touching and using our mouthes before we have sex? What position feels really nice and where abouts in the house shall we do it cause we both said we don't want to in the bed? Anything exotic?Thankss x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): Dude, It doesnt matter. Theres more than you could imagine. In the Shower, On the toliet, In Kitchen, On your roof, In the car, The laundry room, The storage room, Garage, Parents room (: , Couch, Back porch, Yard, and So many more. Be creative!
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reader, TheAgonyAunt +, writes (13 July 2009):
 If you feel its the right choice I'm not going to stop you, I was 14 when I lost my v and I haven't regretted it.Anyway make sure you ARE safe, you should have some condoms just encase he forgets. Just by making out with him and just start touching him and it will lead on naturally, dont worry. You should try alot of foreplay before hand, because I didnt and it really hurt alot, but im sure if id done foreplay then it wouldnt have been too sore.As for the position for your first time I would just try missonary, or you on top so you can take control encase you want to stop, you can always switch to another position when your more comfortable. My favourite would be the 'spoons' postion where he enters you from behind you and can cuddle you or stimulate you while you have sex.If you dont want to do it on a bed (which would be most comfortable) try on the floor, sofa, table? My friend even did it on the stairs? lolDiscuss it with your partner and see what you both want to do.Hope this helps.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): I think the guy would like it if you started kissing him first.Just start by kissing then slowly turning to fondling say running your hands down his back then going to taking his shirt off.See how comfortable you feel then and if your feeling adventurous take off his underwear and trousers.I highly suggest foreplay especially on you first before sex otherwise you will be extrememely tight which may be a good thing for the guy but can be painful for you.Then just go to sex.Position to start with I feel is the guy on top of you.That way you just have to lie there and you wont go too deep.A room? the living room? floor in your bedroom? if you want to be on top then living room on the sofa.
Make sure you use a condom/pill.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 UM you can try watching some porn for ideas im guessing if your mother is going to allow you to have sex she wont have a problem with that secondly if shes going to allow you to have sex it probably wouldnt be a big deal to just ask her for some pointers im sure she wont mind As male i wouldnt want to have this conversation with my daughter but i wouldnt have a problem giving my son some pointers. For your first time i think you should go with the basics nothing to exoctic because you both have to get used to it theres a chance oyu might not like it or its uncomfortable the firs time any way sex is pretty natural and basic instinct dont think about it to hard when your with him it will come natural things that may help set the moon music dimmed lights candles or incense your both young shouldnt have any problem
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reader, venisonstew +, writes (13 July 2009):
although I do have to say you may me a little young, and i don't condone underage sex, but here's a few pointers so your first experience doesn't become your worst experience I would have jumped on it if i had the chance when I was your age.
here's for a cool idea. shower together first. nothing is sexier than when a man has just dried off from a shower!
I would recommend whatever it takes to make sure you don't get pregnant(i'll never have to worry about that!!lol.) how to get into it? start off with foreplay. don't rush it either. have fun caressing his chest, thighs, back, hold him tight, get used to his body. next comes my favorite part. suck his dick! when you got that dick in your mouth, you got the power to give intense pleasure or intense pain. YOU GOT THE POWER!!! focus on the head. don't be afraid to use your tounge or saliva. if you feel you need practice, there's always the blowpop lollipops.
my boyfriend loves when i just stare into his eyes when i suck his dick, while still caressing his chest stomach and legs. (shows that im into it) it is THE most powerful feeling ever, especially when deepthroating.
once he penetrates it may be a little painful, it was very painful the first time for me, but i dont have a pussy so i'm sorry to say I really can't help you too much with that.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (13 July 2009):
 well it seems you think your ready but you have no clue other than you want to do it because everyone else is its fun or it feels good. what you going to do if you get pregnant you cant pretend it wont happen and your school life wont be as good and you wont get very far in life their are so many miserable teens out their because they wanted to jump the gun before it was even loaded. if you really want to do it and make it the best moment as possible go do some reading on it. and i wouldnt put all my faith into condoms either they can break and you can get pregnant so i would go on the pill or something. all i can say is i wish you would wait till your old enough and that you wouldnt break the law but heres a website that should help you be a bit more to be relaxed and if you go against the grain atleast out of this youll do it safely. good luck with your choices in life aphex xx
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml
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