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writes:Ok Soi am a 17 years old healthy guy(breakdancer)I had a bad sex experience like 7 months agoit was my first time too..And i was inside her but it slipped off and i never got hard again to go back in..it was on the beach and it was winteranywaySince then erections havent had been as easy..it happens not only when am with girlsbut when am by myself too..all these 7 months..i started thinkin that this might be mental..and i started to build my confidence bit by bituntill like 2 weeks agowhen i tried again with an other girlfriendand guess what heh..i couldnt penetrate her either coz i wasnt hard enough for penetration.she was tight but still my erections arent weakbut arent full eitherthey are like 65-70% erectAfter the second embarasmenti couldnt take it no moreSo i wanted to see a urologist.I started working just to pay the doctor..coz i didnt want anyone to know about thisso i went to a doctorand he saidthat there might be 2 reasons of my erection problem..first is mental(psycological) and second physical..like duh i already knew that lolanywayhe said that it can be fixed.And he prescribed me levitraAnd he told me to use it and see if it workswell yes it did..but when i dont take the pill erection are the sameAnd before he saidWe should make a test too coz sometimes viruses cause erection problems tooam really worried likeam 17! not 50if i am from now on levitra and drugs liek thati cant imagine later on..And on levitra it says no under 18is this f**ked up or what ):
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): You've got to relax. While it's easy to say, it's hard to do... but you're defeating yourself. First, it's normal for some guys to have a hard time maintaining an erection with a new girl. Many of us have to become comfortable before we can sport a boner that can drive a nail! Getting to know a girl, and getting hot and sweaty with her several times is a great way to develop the talent! Erectile drugs are a good bridge, and it's possible that you can use them to assist until you gain confidence and relax. You might want to experiment with lower doses (cut them in half) and wsee if that's enough. Over time, see if you can get hard w/o them - either way, the girl your with should be supportive and enjoy being with you for you. Learning other ways to get her off is a major plus anyway, as many girls just are not going to come from fucking. Relax and enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): The last guy I was with was the same to start with and he just told me straight out - he has trouble getting really hard with someone new until he's comfortable with her. I didn't mind at all and after a couple of months with me he could get rock solid. So you could have a similar thing, but since it was your first time it was even worse because of first time nerves! So I think you should talk to your girlfriend.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 That is f**ked up but theres good news you have youth on your side, you should find out what the long term side effects of the drug is. geting an erection really doesnt have to do with confidence if your with a girl and your nervous it might impair but generally all you need is visual stimulation try some porn and getting an erection on your own before you branch out to trying with a partner any way be safe and good luck
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