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Should I keep our friendship or throw it away?

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Question - (13 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Well i'm a Fourteen Year old girl and i just got out of a 9 month RelationShip, i guess u can say i was in puppy Love, Apparently he's turning 17 and i We're Still friend's And talk but he Still has hard feeling's for me since I'm the one who broke up with him, But it was a long distance Relationship and He Cheated on me 3 time's and Talk's to so many other girll's Well i wanna know should i keep our friendship or should i throw it away

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A female reader, XOXOXchazXOXOX United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2009):

XOXOXchazXOXOX agony aunti am stuck in the same situation as you and it is hard :( going by the period of time you two was together you must have built up a strong relationship and went through things together, you need to think if you are willing to throw completely everything away or just stay friends. If this boy does still have feelings for you and u stay friends then many things that you do or say even if it is not intentional will come across to him as you still want it.. maybe it would help if u two had a talk which didnt involve feelings or memories to see if it feels right..

As for him cheating that is a terrible think to do and my heart goes out to you. but in a long distance relationship ou start to feel like you are missing somthing, im not trying to justify what he has done as it was wrong.

good luckk

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A female reader, Danii-N-Dale United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2009):

Danii-N-Dale agony auntAww im sorry sweetie that you had to go through the cheating its awful it really is.

Long distance rarely works unless you make it work together if he has cheated on you it makes it worse.

But it is up to you if you want to be friends with this lad and if you do and thats all you want to be make it clear to him so you dont have the risk of getting hurt again.

Wishin You Luck Hunny

All My Love

-Danielle xx

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