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*rmywife_gtmo
writes:So I am newly engaged to an MP in the army and he is stationed at Guantanamo Bay, I live near an air force base so naturally i have alot of air force friends well one of my friends which is a guy has been hitting on me knowing i am engaged and sends me texts messages of what he wants to do to me, i know he is harmless but it still bothers me cause i am alone waiting for my soldier to come home and this guy who is supposed to be my friend sends nasty messages and comments to make me feel like getting married is wron, i love my fiancee and im not sure what to do...
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reader, armywife_gtmo +, writes (13 July 2009):
armywife_gtmo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much. I love my soldier and I don't wanna loose a friend but I'm not going to let it ruin my marriage! I know what is right and I told him to stop. My fiancee said it could be considered sexual harassment and if I have any problems to go to his superior. I hate loosing this friend but I'm not confused and I know who I love! Thanks guys!
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 well why are you confused on what to do?
do you have feelings for this guy?
because you say you love your soldier guy and i'm not saying you don't but shouldn't that be your answer?
you love him not this other guy.
you said in your question "i know what is right, but i'm still confused on what to do", why?
why are you confused if you know what's right?
if you are engaged to Mr Soldier and love him then that's the path but if you have feelings for this other guy then you'll have to sort out what you want.
you say he says comments to you making you feel getting married is wrong... is that how you see marriage? do you think getting married is wrong? i mean who cares what he thinks he's clearly jealous because he can't have you because you're with someone else.
i suggest you make up your mind on who you want...
because you seem unsure about marrying this guy now your "friend" has been texting you.
Hope this helps none of this is intended to be nasty or rude towards you so i apologise should it come across like that. :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (13 July 2009):
 You tell this dumb knucklehead to stop texting you with that silly shit. He is not your friend! This isn't harmless, he is straight up disrespecting you and your fiance. Friends do not hit on their *engaged* friends! If he doesn't get the message through text, you tell him this to his FACE and block his number.
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reader, rcn +, writes (13 July 2009):
 If you really love you fiance, you should know what to do, without question. Tell your friend, to quit or no more friendship. If he can't respect your being engaged, he's really not a friend at all.
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