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writes:Hi,Last August i started cheating on my girlfriend (C****) with another girl i met online (J***). Me and J*** really hit it off and I ended up breaking up with C**** in order to get into a relationship with j***.J*** wanted to take things slow and gave me time to get over the relationship with C**** (6 year relationship), however J*** could see that i still wanted C**** so she started seeing another guy as well as me. This put me off being with J*** as i felt like she was being unfaithful before we had even started and i eventually got back with C**** in January after working through my cheating with her.Its now 7 months later, me and j*** breaking up was rough and we both said/did a lot of harse things. i sent her a message last month saying i was still in love with her (which is true) and now she has got back in contact with me.We agreed to meet (had to be a secret as she is now engaged to the guy she was seeing at the same time as me) and we just walked around the park and talked about how things would have been if i hadn't kept wanting to go back to c****.Anyway, im not sure what J*** now wants from me. See seems happy with her fiance and they live together but she said she got only back in contact because* i said im still in love with her and she said that i know full well how she feels about me.Does she want to cheat on her fiance with me or does she just want to be friends? Im so confused because i wanted to kiss her so bad but held myself back....What should i do?(Sorry this was so long)- R******Mod note: Names have been edited to protect the innocent.
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