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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:hiI am a 45 year old bloke.My problem is 2 years ago I met someone whilst i was with my partner of 7 years and as we weren't married and i paid all the mortgage of our joint house, I wanted her out and my new g/f in. So I told her she never paid her way, cleaned properly and was a depressive and brought me down and i wanted her out.I managed to get my partner to stay at her mothers and got my gf to stay. I know my now ex partner found stuff of my gf's in the house, when she came back when we were out.I had promised my ex partner that if ever we split up i would make sure she was left financially better off as she sold her house to buy one together. She didn't have a mortgage due to her previous divorce settlement.Unfortunately as I earn around £70k I thought I could handle the morgage and took out all the equity so when we split there was no money in the house.My now ex partner texts me every so often saying how she is struggling and what a nasty lying creep i am. I did get her some money and she now has a mortgage, but at the rate she pays it off will have to work until she is 70 as she has a low paid job.I wish she would move on and stop reminding me of her situtation as i am happy and living in a big house with a big mortgage (that we can afford).BTW I have b een married twice before and left the other 2 for other women and left them with mortgages but they don't give me all this shit.I dread that my ex will get a job where i Work as I like to keep my private life private and i know she won't hesitate to bad mouth me.I think she has a screw loose as when she saw me in my brand new bmw car and i stopped to show her it and have a chat she kicked the side of it. Luckily I havent seen her for around `18 months now, but her texts are driving me mad and i don't know where it will end
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Well if you stopped acting like such a dirtbag you wouldn't have to worry about these things.
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