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writes:my ex and i broke up about a month ago, we ended on good terms. we text each other once in a while to see how we're both doing. i want to talk to her face to face but whenever i text her, when she is available she kind of avoids giving me an answer. so i was thinking about giving her a call telling her if we can talk because i want some closure. however i know where i went wrong and have been making changes to make me a better person, not for her.. but just to be stronger. if she gives me the chance to speak with her face to face i was going to tell her why i think the relationship didnt work and have her input as well, i also want to know if she would consider giving me another chance, but i would tell her to not give me an answer now but to just think about it, and if she doesnt want me back, its okay because i know that i gave it a shot. however i believe she might be getting close with another guy. basically i want to know if she gives me the chance to talk to her face to face should i ask her if she would give me another chance that night or should i start off as friends and ask another time?
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 Tell her in person what you have said in this post and see what her response is, if you don't do this you will never have closure.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (13 July 2009):
 well she keeps avoiding the answer maybe thats your answer.
she doesn't want to meet face to face and perhaps she has already moved on but doesn't know how to tell you.
maybe she doesn't want to meet with you to give you another chance because she feels you've had your chance and that's it.
she's probably still hurting after the break up and will find it hard to see you again because all her feelings for you will come rushing back and maybe she knows that's not what she wants and doesn't want to give out false hope.
just stay friends for now and see how that goes let her see for herself how you've changed and become a stronger person in yourself and give her the chance to see that and maybe along the lines in the near future it'll happen again :)
hope this helps
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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