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writes:I have recently been seeing my partner for over a month now and everything has been ok except for his insecurities about me cheating although i never would and have never cheated on any of my other partners... Whilst having sex my partner said his ex`s name with alot of passion and then said it again the next time we had sex.... Is he still in love with his ex? should i move on now that im not sure if he loves me anymore?..... so many answers i need any help would be greatly appreciated ta.
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reader, 70times7  +, writes (13 July 2009):
I was recently in a long relatinship with someone. I am not in love with him anymore. Sometimes I almost say his name when I'm with my new guy, thankfully I catch myself. Maybe the 2 of you should talk about this and see if he is still in love at all or not. It could just be he said it so much it's just what comes out of his mouth. I wouldn't think it means he's cheating, unless you have other things that point to that. Just, most importantly make sure he is completely over her.. if he's not he may stray.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 July 2009):
 I think that is a question you should ask him. How did he react to using HER name with you?
Personally it would tick me off to no END if that ever happened to me.
Does it mean he loves her? Maybe. She is most definitely on his mind during sex.... I would be inclined to say move on. If it happened once, ok that can be a mistake, but more then once.. no.
I don't think he is over her.
PS Did he cheat on his ex or did she cheat on him?
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reader, dddddddd +, writes (13 July 2009):
What was his reaction? Did he apologise or give any explanation?
If they were together for a long time it could be out of habit that he would say his name (so excusable up to a point) but it could also be he was thinking about his ex when he said it.
Maybe see if it happens again or talk to him about it and hopefully you'll get more insight as to what might be going on.
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reader, angelsrock18 +, writes (13 July 2009):
 talk to him about it, and if you can tell he isn't honest end it.
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